Breaking free from the fear of failure to overcome emotional eating

Breaking free from the fear of failure to overcome emotional eating

How the fear of failure may manifest itself in your life

Most of my clients shared the same initial fear before we began our work together: "What if I fail?" They worried about putting in tremendous effort, only to return to square one. Perhaps you can relate to this cycle of weight loss followed by weight gain, or the frustrating battle with overeating or binging that seems to resurface every few months. Fear of failure might manifest itself in thoughts and feelings that getting rid of your unwanted eating habits - is too difficult, - takes too long, - is impossible because you won’t have the willpower to do it, - means that you will have to deprive yourself. These negative thoughts and feelings will stop you either during the process or might even stop you before you get started.   Breaking free from the fear of failure to overcome emotional eating ...
From Stress to Success: How to Manage Emotional Eating for high-achievers

From Stress to Success: How to Manage Emotional Eating for High-Achievers

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating   Many high-achieving, successful people often face the challenge of overeating and emotional eating, even though they excel in other areas of their lives. In this blog post, I introduce the W.I.S.E.R. model as a tool to manage emotional eating for high-achievers.  

From Stress to Success: How to Manage Emotional Eating for High-Achievers

  You're driven by ambition, you are a successful self-made person but often find yourself struggling when it comes to managing your relationship with food. The pressure of your demanding career, your relentless pursuit of goals, and the constant juggling of responsibilities can lead to heightened stress and overwhelming emotions. Turning to food as a means to numb or distract yourself became your go-to coping mechanism. However, as you recognize the detrimental effects of emotional eating on your overall well-being, you want to find healthier ways to navigate intense emotions and stress. In this blog post, I'll introduce and dissect the W.I.S.E.R. model, offering step-by-step guidance on how to apply it when confronted with intense emotions and the urge to turn to food for comfort. It's a great tool to manage emotional eating for high-achievers. By the end of this blog post, you will have actionable insights and practical tools to help you navigate challenging moments and cultivate a healthier approach to emotional well-being and eating habits.   How to Manage Emotional Eating for high-achievers ...
Taking a deep breath can make you more anxious and stressed

Taking a deep breath can make you more anxious and stressed

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating   Taking a deep breath to calm down may not work for you and it can make you more anxious and stressed. When it comes to breathing and anxiety, slow and steady wins the race. By focusing on extending your exhale and practising diaphragmatic breathing, you can promote feelings of relaxation and reduce stress in your body and mind.  

"Taking a deep breath" to calm down is NOT what you need

As a busy, high-performing person, you often find yourself constantly on the go, with a never-ending to-do list and high expectations to meet. This can lead to feelings of overwhelm, stress, and anxiety. To cope with these overwhelming feelings, many people turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms such as overeating, binge eating, or drinking. You may find yourself reaching for sugary snacks or junk food to help you cope with your emotions or turning to alcohol to unwind after a long day. Unfortunately, these coping mechanisms only provide temporary relief and can lead to long-term health consequences. One of the most common pieces of advice given to help calm anxiety and reduce stress is to "take a deep breath." However, I recently learned that quickly taking a deep breath can actually worsen the symptoms of anxiety by upsetting the delicate balance of gases in our bodies. Taking a deep breath to calm down doesn't work ...
How to apply Coue's method for weight management and lose the struggle

How to apply Coue’s method for weight management and lose the struggle

In this post, I show you how I use Coue's method for weight management and to do things I thought I couldn't do. What you believe you can do changes what you can actually do. Let me explain. In this blog post, I talk about
  • - Cuoe's method,
  • - autosuggestions,
  • - how they work,
  • - 2 examples from my own life,
  • - how I applied Coue's method for weight management,
  • - how I can help you.
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interior design to help you break free from emotional eating

Interior design to help you break free from emotional eating

Optimizing our environment (using interior design principles) is a powerful tool to help us develop new habits. I work with my clients to change on six levels to break free from emotional and binge eating. One of the levels is their environment. When I worked with Adriana Gómez Navarro, Holistic Interior Designer, on her eating habits, she had brilliant ideas about making small changes in her home to help her build the new eating and thinking habits I taught her. I loved her ideas so much that I asked her to write a guest post about them so you can benefit from her tips too. Check out her post below about how to use Interior Design to help you break free from emotional eating.  

Interior Design to help you break free from emotional eating

My name is Adriana Gómez Navarro, and I am a holistic interior designer. Beyond creating beautiful spaces, my work is about well-being and designing for the changes people want to see in their lives. We shape environments, and then as we live in our spaces, the environment shapes us back.   I met Rita a couple of years ago and loved her guidance while reviewing my habits and impulses around food. We both agree that forcing new habits doesn’t work. Instead, it’s best to flow towards desired outcomes. We both help our clients look at their experience to identify, in their armour of beliefs, why they are stuck in bad habits that don't allow them to have the life they want.   Interior design to help you break free from emotional eating ...
overeating to improve your mood

Overeating to improve your mood – does it work?

Overeating to improve your mood

It’s important to find mood-boosting activities if you’re an emotional eater. Overeating to improve your mood is only a temporary solution.  They say the third week of January is the gloomiest, most depressing time of the year (it's cold and dark, etc.). I know it’s already the 4th week but does it really matter? It could be any day of the year.  But it doesn’t have to be. We can find a few minutes every day to do something that improves our mood. Or we can learn to manage our thoughts and feelings to improve our baseline mood. It’s especially important to find some mood-boosting activities if you’re an emotional eater and overeat to improve your mood.  Using food to escape an uncomfortable feeling, aka. overeating to improve your mood is only a temporary solution.  You know that, right? Because that 'something' that caused you to feel uncomfortable is still there. You haven’t dealt with it. So it’ll trigger those same feelings again in the future.  If this habit of distracting yourself with food has resulted in weight gain, you’ll have even more negative feelings.  So you have your original issue plus negative thoughts about your body. Eating to improve your mood doesn’t work very well, right?   Can you improve your mood with overeating?

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You are successful in your life but struggle with food

You are successful in your life but struggle with food

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating   Smart, successful people, like you, despite all they’ve accomplished, sometimes can’t figure out how to stop overeating. CEOs, entrepreneurs, professionals, researchers, physicians, lawyers, coaches, and leaders know how to solve complicated problems, lead the work of other people, win big contracts, save lives, solve legal issues, and coach other people on various topics, but they feel powerless around food. You’re always busy, your job is stressful, you may even travel a lot, plus you raise a family. To build your career first, you may have had children later in your life. Now you're in your late 40s or early 50s and have to face the problems associated with your busy career, perimenopause, moody teenagers and ageing parents at the same time. The eat-to-soothe stress habit became your release. You can read about how stress-related overeating works and how this habit forms here. [irp posts="7045" ] [irp posts="3093" ] You are successful in your life but struggle with food

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overeating in the evening, overeating at the weekend, overeating at night

7 reasons for overeating in the evening or at the weekend and how to stop

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating   A common question I get: “I always overeat in the evening or at the weekend. How can I stop this?” Overeating in the evening and overeating at the weekend are complex issues and there are so many reasons they can happen. I'll cover the most common reasons and solutions in this post, but if you want my undivided attention, book a free call here so we can find the best solution for YOU. Let’s see the first reason for overeating in the evening or at the weekend. ...
how stress eating works

How stress-related overeating works

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating

How stress-eating works

Acute, short-term stress decreases appetite. However, when stress persists (chronic stress), a hormone called cortisol is released. Cortisol increases hunger due to the imbalance of ghrelin and leptin hormones, leading to overeating. Numerous studies show that cortisol also affects food preferences, i.e. increases cravings for foods high in sugar or fat, or both.   how stress eating works ...
5 ways to start living mindfully to stop emotional eating

5 ways to start living mindfully right now to stop emotional eating

free training to stop emotinal eating and stress eating   In this post, I introduce 5 ways to start living mindfully to stop emotional eating, binge eating and habitual overeating. There's no doubt you've heard of mindful living. It's about being present in your day-to-day life and not letting distractions or worries take over. In my previous post, I talked about the many benefits of mindful living and showed 4 signs indicating that you live your life mindlessly. Being more mindful also helps with emotional eating and overeating. If you want to live more mindfully to be able to stop emotional eating but don't know where to start, try some of these exercises. ...